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August 4, 2013

Fat and Single – Worst dating ideas

Let’s be honest to ourselves, we’ve been on bad dates and sometimes it’s our own doing. We have thought about a lot of worst dating ideas and here is a list to narrow down the worst dating ideas ever.

Anything with friends – dating is supposed to be your time alone together so that you can get to know each other more. So don’t take any of your friends, especially the single ones.

Clubbing – hanging out at your local club is great if you want to have some fun with friends but going on a date is a bad idea. It’s too loud and you couldn’t easily talk to each other.

Going somewhere with messy food – Going on a date with messy food that goes all over your hands or face is the ultimate turn-off and can make your date feel uncomfortable. So Buritos and spaghetti should be out the window.

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July 27, 2013

Fat and Single – Where to go on your first date

It is always a challenge to think of a place to go on your first date. The problem is that it needs it to be fun, exciting and something new to both of you. If you both love to go out and work up a sweat, then the bowling alley could be a good place to go on your first date. You could bring some pizza and beer and engage in some healthy competition. Before setting up your first date together you really have to think about your partner. You have to consider what he/she likes doing. You should also pick a place where you can both interact without it being awkward. More importantly the first date should not be overly romantic. Remember that you are only just getting to know each other. So an overly romantic place is out of the question.

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July 20, 2013

Fat and Single – Sexting – Good or bad?

With all the latest gadgets and technology it is fair to say that a lot of people are using it in a sexual way. Sexting has become increasingly popular nowadays. It can be good for a few good reasons. One is that it creates some excitement in your relationship. It brings you closer together and just shows how much you trust each other and how willing you are to fool around with each other. However it can have a negative side as well. Like sending private images to your partner, there’s a chance that your photo might be used against you. So before deciding to do “sexting” make sure that you are doing it with a partner who you trust.

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July 13, 2013

Fat and Single – How to move past the friend zone

Getting into the friend zone is a common trap to fall into when you have feelings for that person. It is really hard to move past the friend zone when a girl see’s you as one. The best thing to do is avoid make your feelings clear and simply avoid the friend zone in the first place. However if you are already in the friend zone there are a couple of things you can do to get out of it. First thing is that you need to let her know how you really feel. You must confront her with your feelings and tell her that you want to be more than friends. However you should do it nicely and slowly. Either way it could be that she didn’t have a clue about your feelings towards her or she already knows it. Just hope for the best that she also feels the same way towards you. On the plus side, if she doesn’t feel that same way you still have her as a friend and maybe she’ll change her mind in the future.

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July 6, 2013

Fat and Single – How to get a second date

Getting a first date is hard enough, however getting a second date can be just as challenging. You need to impress on your first date before getting that second one. If you fail on your first date you could kiss that idea of having a second date goodbye. So how to get a second date? Like I said you need to impress on your first date to get a chance of having a second one. So try not to be forceful on your first date, just be cool about it and create a little mystery about yourself. That way he/she should be interested enough to go on you on a second date. If you did good on your first date do not ask directly for a second date especially if you’re a guy. Wait for her to give you hints if she wants a second date or not. Following the first date, wait for a couple of days to ask her out again.

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June 29, 2013

Fat and Single – How to be a Man

What does it really take to be a man? It can be hard for a man to express their masculinity without coming across as cruel or cold hearted or if you’re not manly enough you may come across as wimpy and emasculated. Here are a few tips on how to be a man in today’s time.
First of all you need to make real decisions. A man should respect and must understand the power of choice. You should live a life of your own creation and no one else’s. Also a real man should be willing to fail. You should be willing to make mistakes and learn from your choices. You’d rather try and fail than doing nothing. Most importantly a man should be confident about himself. You must act and speak with confidence and have a manly attitude.

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June 22, 2013

Fat and Single – Great first date activities

Setting up the first date is very crucial. You need to pull it off perfectly so that you could go on another date. However the question is where you should go on your first date. Do you play it safe and go to a restaurant that you already know, or grab a coffee at your local coffee shop. While most men play it safe, others would go all out to impress on their first date. So here are some amazing first date ideas you should try.
Bowling – it is an old school idea, which is very cool and with a great casual vibe. The both of you could grab a slice of pizza and a beer while engaging in some healthy competition.
Aquariums or water worlds – Aquariums aren’t just for fourth grade field trips, it could be also a great place for a first date.
Theater – if you both love to watch theater, why not go and watch one on your first date.

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June 15, 2013

Fat and Single – Getting intimate

Getting intimate is very tricky, if you can’t control your urge your attempt to get intimate may just result in sex. However there are a lot of ways of getting intimate without having sex. One of the many things you could do to get intimate is to snuggle up on the sofa, lie in the park together or play games. You can make kissing more intimate and exciting by kissing each other in different areas like the neck or ear. Another great thing to do is to tease and joke with your partner. Wrestling or pretend fighting can be another way of getting intimate. Not necessarily on the floor or on the bed, this could lead to other things. Overall you need to be a lot more physical with each other and have some fun.

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June 8, 2013

Fat and Single – Finding the Spark

Every once in a while we go on a date. It is important to date in order to meet other people so that we can find the right person for us. The perfect guy or girl won’t just walk by you while you are sitting on your couch. So try to getting out there and meeting other people.
When dating someone it is very hard to find the spark that you are looking for. So how can you find that spark? Do not try to manipulate the situation just to create a so spark. Forcing things won’t help you in any way, it will do just the opposite. It will slow things down and could ruin the mood. So try to relax, get to know your date or partner in a natural manner and the spark will come at the right time.

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June 1, 2013

Fat and Single – Finding a connection with your date

While you are on your first date it is only natural to look for something that you could hold on to and decide whether you should go deeper or enter into a relationship. Finding a connection with your date is very important because this is a great factor if you are deciding to pursue this or not. While it is very hard to expect something from your date, it is much easier if you don’t expect anything at all. Talking is a great way to find any connection that you might have with your date. You could ask questions about likes or dislikes which might help to make that connection. If you find a common connection then you should go deeper into it. Your connections may become hobbies, personal traits, things you want to do or love or even hate.

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